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How to Spot Tricks of the Narcissistic Trade

How to spot tricks of the narcissistic trade. Not all who abuse are abusers. You may want to question this statement, but sit with me for a minute and let me explain. Yes, the actual abuser always exists. Their act of abuse is threaded so tightly within their core being that it is rooted in …

Do You Accept Your Valuable Gift of Freedom?

Do you accept your valuable gift of freedom? Freedom is an innate gift to us all, however, most who walk this earth have never known the joy of its blessings. Tomorrow, the United States of America commemorates its freedom gained in 1776 by signing the Declaration of Independence. People celebrate this monumental day in many …

Are You a Workaholic? Revealing Its Hidden Cause.

Are you a workaholic? Revealing its hidden cause. People have a long history of doing all they can to skirt around facing unwanted feelings. The drug addict, the sex addict, those addicted to anger and abusive ways, the forms of addictions are countless. Often, they have become that way due to avoiding their feelings instead …

Revealing a Peculiar Hidden Link to Survivor’s Guilt.

Revealing a peculiar hidden link to survivor’s guilt and healing. So why do some people heal when others break? This question is an ageless one that survivors have asked countless times. You know how it goes—one person, scheduled on a flight, cancels their reservation at the last minute. The plane crashes in mid-air. Yet, the …

Do You Know How to Find Freedom from Your Perspective?

Do you know how to find freedom from your perspective? For many, doing so is no easy task, but it is well worth the effort. Ask yourself this question. Does my standpoint build me up, or does it suppress me? Those of us victimized by abuse have been trained in the know-how of suppression. The abuser imprints this skill …

Why Are People Quick to Be Critical? Unlock the Answer.

Why are people quick to be critical? Unlock the answer. Abuse comes in many forms, some obvious, still others not so much. One of the more subtle yet widely spread forms of abuse is criticism. To see more Crystalisms, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/1360983917796761. Five years ago, when my Westie was a pup, I struggled to run …

Do You Know How to Stop Being a Victim?

Do you know how to stop being a victim? This lack of knowledge keeps many people trapped in the cycle of going from one abusive relationship to another. “Stop being a victim! Stop being a victim!” I have heard those words countless times over the twenty-six years of life with my ex. Abusers weaponize victimization …

Do You Know How to Heal through Acceptance?

Do you know how to heal through acceptance? We each have areas we don’t want to accept in our lives. Yet, often, acceptance is the quickest path to healing. No one in their right mind would choose the life of a victim. This reality is why Natalie from Robin’s Gift ran from everything she knew. Natalie attempted to create …

Are You Being Abused? Follow These 9 Important Steps.

Are you being abused? Follow these nine important steps. Finding one’s way out of abuse is no easy task. Since it is a path I have trod, I wish to share some steps I’ve learned to assist you on your journey. Step 1: Saying Goodbye to Denial The first step in finding your way out …